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Celebrating Dad
published: Sunday | August 3, 2008

Latoya Campbell, Gleaner Writer


Simone and Dennis Campbell.

"I cannot think of any need in childhood as strong as the need for a father's protection."

- Sigmund Freud

Some of my fondest childhood memories are the times spent with my father when I was younger; even now, I still enjoy 'hanging out with Dad'.

The month of June is celebrated as family month with special tribute paid to fathers on the third Sunday in that month. But outside of that single day, not much recognition is given to this person who still remains the backbone of many households; this person who takes seriously his role as father to his children, or even those put in his care.

Instead of recognition, he is given the broad-brush treatment - smeared with the same brush used to cover the worthless, deadbeats of the male species. That is unfortunate, really, but we can always make right that terrible wrong.

For those of you who did not get the opportunity to plan something special for your father this past Father's Day, don't worry. You don't have to wait until this once-per-year time to celebrate Dad. Show him love throughout the year.

Outlook Youth met three young people who were eager to share their views on their father.

Michael Thompson, 21:

"Meet my dad, Owen Thompson.

I think my father has made a significant impact on my life. He does so through the way that he shows me the importance of doing the best I can in whatever I decide to pursue in life. Even with my schoolwork, regardless of my grades, he has always been supportive."

Michael does not believe that enough emphasis is being placed on celebrating fathers. Still, he sees the need for more responsible fathers.

Djet Layne, 18:

"Michael Layne - my father - is a source of inspiration."

What does he admire most about his father's parenting style?

"He tries to raise me completely different, in comparison to how his father raised him. He was terrified of his father, who took a more dictatorship approach to parenting. My father is very complex and that reflects in the styles he has adopted. For instance, he often argues with me with the intention that it will make me better able to defend myself in an argument."

How does he think fathers can strengthen their relationship with their children?

"There are many ways in which that can be done but all it takes is interest. Naturally, the more time you spend together, the stronger the relationship becomes. Simple everyday activities, such as watching the television together, having dinner, doing odd jobs around the house together, or anything that endorses communication can easily build that connection."

Simone-Claire Campbell, 16:

"Say 'hello' to my father, Dennis Campbell. The qualities I've adopted from my father are his practicality his sense of responsibility (he says that I'm bright 'cause of him ... pshhh) and his sense of humour. Physically, I think I have his smile."

What is the best gift that you have ever given your father?

"My birth!" (laughs) My sister is more of the 'gift' person, I'm the cook so that's how I usually treat him on Father's Day. Otherwise, according to my father, the best gift I've ever given him is me working hard and being successful."


Lorenzo Crumbie with his nephew Antoje.


Owen Thompson (foreground) with his children (from left) Owen Jr, Sheryll and Michael.


Djet (left) and Michael Layne.

For the most interesting teen issues and styles, get your copy of Youthlink magazine on news-stands on Tuesday.

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