Time for males to take a stand
published:
Thursday | May 15, 2008
Thomas Phinemann, Contributor
The headline of the lead story in THE STAR, Thursday, May 8, 'Eight most deadly men', screamed at me. I thought, men at it again.
When will brothers stop killing brothers, sisters and children? Although some women are involved in criminal activities, men are the main perpetrators and the main victims. Crime and violence will be reduced when enough of us take a stand against it.
Brothers, will we continue to kill each other? Who or what gives us the right to wantonly take human life?
This is not just a matter for the Government and the security forces. We are either part of the problem or part of the solution. There is no middle ground. We are fast becoming an endangered species. The pathetic thing is that we are responsible for reducing our numbers.
We are not helpless
First of all, we need to accept the fact that we are not helpless. I don't believe that criminals outnumber law-abiding citizens but law-abiding Jamaicans are too quick to cower in fear. Where are the criminals? They are among us. They are in our homes, and in our communities. They drive fear into us so much that we imprison ourselves behind bars and pay exorbitant fees to security companies.
Second, talking and writing our opinions about what needs to be done to make a difference has not changed the crime situation. Playing the blame game hasn't helped either. Those of us who have a heart denounce the heartless among us. We repudiate violence and the violent in our island. We need to stand up and be counted.
Respect for life
We can learn from our politicians. Political rallies are held to drum up support for parties. This is why numbers are important and no effort is spared in organising mass gatherings at strategic points.
It is time to start identifying those of us who are willing to take a stand against crime and violence. There are only two sides: Those for crime and violence and those against it. Identifying those against is step one. Step two is getting together as a group and making our presence felt in the short, medium and long term.
As men, we have to be bold in our stance against wrongdoing.
We have to demonstrate our respect for life and play our part in making Jamaica a safe place. If we cannot do this as men, no one can. Sometimes, we are expected to be tough and pretend that we are not afraid.
Create a lead story
Weapons do not kill people. People use weapons to kill other people. Think about the 'eight most deadly men'. Eight is a small number. There are thousands of men of all ages who believe in protecting and preserving life. It is time for us as men to create a lead story '800,000 men stand together against crime and violence'.
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Men major victims in 2007
Murder
Shooting
Robbery
Males
1,427
1,319
1,082
Females
147
126
521
Source: Social and Economic Survey 2007
Feedback to last week's column 'Money not the measure of a man'
Money-grabbing women bashed
I read your article and it was refreshing. I thought I was the only reasonable man left on Earth.
It's not that I am a mean man, but if we are a couple and the female wants to be seen as an equal partner, finances should be both our responsibilities.
HOPE
Women should not have it both ways. With certain issues, it is left up to the men, but with others, they want to be treated equally. Looking forward for another article from you. There seems to be hope for us.
- Bryan Carlton
bryanc@colsonservices.com
I agree with your column wholeheartedly, because many Jamaican women have lost their way because of material things.
Some of them put themselves in desperate situations and sell good principles for a few extra dollars. I'm the first to say that Jamaican women can be the very best in the world if they adopt good principles, but I guess that's more easily said than done.
The fact that lots of women put themselves in fragile situations makes them easy to be exploited, then they lose self-respect. So I say to my native Jamaican Nubian women, guide your daughters so that they learn from an early age to respect themselves.