Today we continue our series of suggestions for good child development in recognition of Child Month being celebrated under the theme, 'Enabling Independent, Enthusiastic and Successful Learners'.

Teach your children about sexual abuse

'Bad' touch: Tell your children that if someone tries to touch their bodies in ways that make them feel uncomfortable, they can and should say NO to the person and tell you about it right away.

Sexual abusers are often known to children and may be family members or friends.

Tell them that their bodies are theirs and that they have the right to tell others not to touch them.

Tell them that respect does not always mean doing what older people tell them to do.

Tell them again and again about sexual abuse so they know what it is and what to do about it.

Help children if they have been sexually abused

Tell them they can talk to you about anything, including sexual abuse.

If you think something could be wrong, ask them more questions to make sure they are not in danger.

If your child has been sexually abused, stay calm, comfort them and tell them that they have done nothing wrong.

Take them to the local health clinic and also ask about mental health services.

Find help for yourself so you can better support your children.