Angela Philipps, Contributor

Inspired by a recent feature in the newspaper which listed the best- and worst-dressed people in Jamaica for 2007, I started to think about whether what we wear influences our chances for 'picking up' or attracting dates. And, on a side note, if the photos of those who were considered 'in need of help' are anything to go by, Jamaica is doing pretty well on the fashion front!

So, when you go out, do those who are up to par on trend catch your eye? Do you find that you have more 'hotties' that approach you when you are well dressed?

First impressions do count for something, and I have to admit that if I were to see a man walk into the room and he was wearing shabby and unfashionable clothes, then I'd not give him a moment's thought. Well, I might be asking myself one teeny, little thing, "Surely, he could make more of an effort than that?!" However, let's say he's wearing the latest styles that are in all the magazines. This might well put me off just as much, if not more. I'd probably feel like he was trying just a wee bit hard to impress the ladies, and that this was indicative of being a show-off. I'm quite sure I'd do a double take, especially if he was good-looking on top of it all, but I'd disdainfully say, "Who the heck does that idiot think he is?" I'd then try and ignore him for the rest of the night. This kind of fellow annoys me no end!

OK, so what would turn me towards giving a guy the time of day, when it comes to what he's wearing? Well, I guess something in between. Simple, dark blue jeans and a white shirt! I suppose it would also depend on his demeanour. How does he react to those around him? Does he seem comfortable in his own skin? If so, it usually means he's at ease with what he's wearing as well. This would indicate to me tha he looks cool and sexy, he has not gone to great lengths to achieve this. That's the bloke I want to talk to!

What gets me noticed

Now, what about my experiences? Do I get noticed more when I have made an effort with my outfits? This is when I have come to realise that men and women are similar. Simplicity is actually liked by most people, if not all. Three-quarter length black leggings, a long, flowing shirt, sandals and simple silver hoops are all it takes for me to get noticed. Put me in a scruffy pair of sweat pants with an oversized T-shirt, and the same men wouldn't bat an eyelid. Spruce me up in the latest catwalk 'get-up' out of Milan, and leave my face laden with some heavy make-up, and I am pretty certain that if I did get stopped, it wouldn't be by anyone I'd have an interest in.

However, there must be those who love high fashion and wouldn't dream of associating with anyone with lesser standards. Look at Posh Spice and her husband, David Beckham. Like attracts like, I guess. The level of trend which you would wish to follow is probably some indication as to whom you'll be drawn to. Remember, I am only looking at what one wears here. Personality can change everything in this article!

I'd say a good rule of thumb is to be happy with who you are, and dress accordingly. Be down to earth, but make sure you throw in a little something that tells people who you are. Fashion is subjective, but if you're looking for romance, you need to try and objectively predict what the opposite sex would be drawn to. Style will get you the first date, but it's up to you to clinch a second one!

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