What they really need

INUNDATING CHILDREN'S homes with toys and clothing - though these may be needed - at this time of year does not help in the long-term development of the children - they are not helped too much, states superintendent of the Maxfield Park Children's Home, Roxiline Morrison-Spence. "They see the world as one in which they get everything free. They do not get a chance to develop themselves so that they can become self-sustaining citizens."

She states that the spin-offs of the "freeness mentality" are a poor work ethic and underachievement. "We have teens who are struggling with the alphabet and struggling with reading. They do not see that the onus is on them to achieve and it's a problem. The Home must move from being a holding area for children until they are 18 ­ into a place where they can get a second chance. Jamaicans need to share in the vision of children who need to be taught well," the administrator said.

Others believe that though seasonal gifts of clothes and toys may not adequately meet the children's needs, every little bit helps. At the Bustamante Children's hospital, CEO, Gloria Robinson reports, "We get a lot of support from a range of companies who bring in toys and treats for the children at this time of year. We certainly appreciate it and the children look forward to it."

"Those who give the treats ­ it makes these people happy and it also makes the children happy. I speak with the children and they say, 'Mrs. Robinson, when is the next treat?' Lady Cooke was here yesterday giving out toys and they were so excited. Those who want to focus on long-term needs such as equipment, we do appreciate that, but we encourage all to do what they can ­ be that singing a carol to the children, or whatever."

Deputy Director of Child Care at the National Children's Home, Genevieve Tomlinson, told Outlook that every contribution is encouraged and that not even the annual donation of shoes and clothes are enough. Often, all that come are toys and the clothing which is donated may not be the correct size. She expressed the wish that donors would call the home or email them at nch@colis.com to find out the exact sizes and the extent of the need.

She said that donors are quite creative in their gift-giving at Christmas. The NCB group this year, she said, are giving the home a face life with new mattresses, sheets and paint. The home's request for a multi-purpose court (volleyball/netball) is yet to be realised, however.

She does not share the belief that treats and loads of gifts at Christmas will induce in the parent-less bunch a freeness mentality. Rich and poor children look forward to Christmas treats. "As parents and caregivers, it is up to us to see that they do not only receive, but also give. Here at the National Children's Home we hold a Christmas programme where our children perform for donors. That is one way of saying thanks and giving back. They are also involved in the home for the elderly where they help out and provide entertainment," she said.